St. Paul: 1 Corinthians 7:7-38:
7 I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own special
gift from God, one of one kind and one of another.
8 To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is well for them
to remain single as I do.
9 But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry.
For it is better to marry than to be aflame with passion . . .
20 Every one should remain in the state in which he was called
. . . . .
27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be free. Are you free
from a wife? Do not seek marriage.
28 But if you marry, you do not sin . . . Yet those who marry
will have worldly troubles, and I would spare you that. . .
32 I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is
anxious about the affairs of the Lord, how to please the Lord;
33 But the married man is anxious about worldly affairs, how to
please his wife,
34 and his interests are divided. And the unmarried woman or girl
is anxious about the affairs of the Lord, how to be holy in body
and spirit; but the married woman is anxious about worldly affairs,
how to please her husband.
35 I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon
you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion
to the Lord . . .
38 So that he who marries his betrothed does well; and he who
refrains from marriage will do better.